I am a lover of words. Their emotional baggage fascinates me, their usage, their sound . . . seriously I could go on but I will get to the point (eventually) of my writing post today. Last week I read a comparison between the two words cynic and skeptic. I was intrigued because I began to wonder am I more cynical or skeptical? Then I started to think maybe I am more optimistic. So I looked up definitions (shocking, I know). And here is my challenge today. How do you find your self approaching life? Perhaps, like me you are sometimes a cynic, sometimes a skeptic, sometimes an optimist and sometimes a pessimist. Examine yourself a little and if you feel so inclined write it in a journal, blog it or comment here.
Cynical:
adjective. believing that people are motivated in all their actions only by selfishness; denying the sincerity of people's motives and actions, or the value of living; sarcastic ...
I am pretty cynical that there are any decent politicians in our country. Occasionally, when I am really tired and cranky, I believe all the carpoolers going to and from school could care less about everyone else trying to get out of the mayhem.
Skeptical
noun . 1. a person who questions the validity or authenticity of something purporting to be factual. 2. a person who maintains a doubting attitude, as toward values, plans ...
Unfortunately, I find myself playing the part of a skeptic a lot, especially when it comes to sudden illnesses in my children that occur whenever they have to clean their room. I mean your arms can't hurt every day around room cleaning time, can they? Another headache, you have to be kidding me.
I am also pretty skeptical about all those fad diet miracles.
Optimist
- somebody positive: somebody who tends to feel hopeful and positive about future outcomes
- follower of optimism: a follower of a philosophical doctrine of optimism
I am happy to say I am often an optimist. I feel hopeful that spring will bring all the bulbs I planted. I am optimistic the deer and rabbits will not destroy my yard as badly as they did last year. I am optimistic that my children will make mostly good choices. I believe that happiness is a daily possibility.
Pessimist:
very negative person: somebody who always expects the worst to happen.
I am definitely a pessimist occasionally, especially when it comes to health. I really am expecting the worst when it comes to flu and cold season. I am a little pessimistic about having all my health concerns resolved.
So where do you stand. Are you a cynic, a skeptic, an optimist or a pessimist?
5 comments:
I think i am like you and can be a little of all of them with certain situations. Glad to hear it isn't just my kids who suddenly don't feel good when it is time to clean. Wimps!
I'm going to rate myself a cynical optimist. Most of the time I am sarcastic and most of the time I think things are going to be great. Sometimes I have moments of the other two though.
I aim to be an optimist but think I tend to get cynical. This is a good reminder for me. ALWAYS look for the posative.
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hey rachelle, based on your definitions ,i am definitely an optimist! i had no idea, I also swing to pessimism so maybe i'm bipolar!
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