Teenage Love

Excuse me, but I have to vent for just a minute. Because frankly, I am a little confused.

Let me just preface this by saying I am not bragging about my son here. I am a little unsure how to deal with this. I choose to laugh because it is getting a little ridiculous. I laugh because I am also a little freaked out. You may choose to think what I have to tell you is cute. I am a little disturbed by it all, and I feel a little sorry for Isaac and for the girls who continue to basically throw themselves at him.

Isaac came home and told us that some girl had declared her undying love for him. Isaac is not bragging either, he is a little overwhelmed by the attention. Especially when said girl wrote all her flowery feelings down in a letter. As Isaac said there were similes and metaphors involved in the writing and although I did not read it (he crumpled up and threw it away) some of the things this girl said about Isaac's eyes make me really embarrassed for her. It also made me laugh really hard, which also makes me embarrassed for her. Isaac doesn't really know her well. But what makes it even more awkward is that she is his wife in the school play. Poor kid. And poor girl. Her friend told her she should take more risks and she did. Nice but stupid friend.

This is not the first incident of this kind of teenage girl love this month either. A few weeks earlier a girl asked if he would be her boyfriend. This girl is actually a good friend of his but he told me she reminds him of his sister. Thank heavens he didn't say that to her.

He politely declined and told her he couldn't go on dates until he was 16 and that he had a relationship before that turned out bad. I thought he handled it well. He was a little concerned. The girl did not come to school the next day.

"She will be fine" I told him. "At least you didn't tell her she reminded you of your sister."

That same week some girl's friend came up and asked Isaac if she liked her friend (I admit this is a little less aggressive).

I have had to tell some of Rebecca's 10 year old friends to leave Isaac alone too. One of them told him she would pay for his movie ticket if he would please just come with Rebecca and her friends to the movies. Poor Becca.  

And anyways why are all these girls so aggressively going after boys? Do they really think that flowery love notes saying "I will never break your heart." to a 13 year old boy are going to make those boys feel anything but uncomfortable. And 13 year old boys -- at least most of them -- are uncomfortable when you throw yourselves at them and they have to try and be gentlemen and not hurt your feelings. Because as Isaac knows well already, when you hurt a girl's feelings you also offend her circle of friends and that never turns out pretty.

Please middle school girls restrain your raging hormones. Boys do not want to feel cornered by your undying love when they are 13. They may like you, it's true. Probably just not quite as much as you like them.

Phew Mama Bear got that off her chest. Feel a little better now.

March and April

Let me just say that the last six weeks of my life have been INSANE. It always happens that the craziest weeks of mine and the kids' lives fall in the weeks when Tom is entrenched in tax season. I always think I can pull it off and then the week before tax season is up I come just moments away from a panic attack. A friend even offered me some of her valium at some point. I politely refused. I've done this before, I knew I would survive.

The problem is that Isaac's scout stuff always comes due in April and since he is way into music and theater it is also the time of year when he has recitals, competitions, performances and plays. It is a little crazy. Now it turns out that my youngest also happens to be a musical dancing girl and now we have her stuff too. Add Easter, the fact that my children have all outgrown or outworn their clothes. (Isaac was literally down to one pair of shorts and 1 shirt that fit him last week.) and magazine deadlines and meetings and I was feeling just a little overwhelmed. People kept trying to call me at home last week and saying I couldn't get you. Yep, that is because I was barely home. And the disaster state of my house proves it! 

So, a few photos of what we have been up to this month. 

 A little Spilbeedog one March morning.

 With Tom's band playing in the background, Lia gets 2 feet up the climbing wall before succumbing to pure terror.

Isaac went on an orchestra trip to Disneyland to compete in the Heritage Festival. It was quiet in our house without him. His sisters were so excited when he came home they anxiously waited for him to get off the bus. This is the cutest picture to me.

Spring break came and I decided to take a hike with the kids. I had heard of this Lion's Mouth cave west of Cedar City that had petroglyphs. We set out to find it -- which took us much longer than I expected. There are no signs or marked path indicating how to get to it. Finally, we decided to head up the hill towards the rock formation. It was a much longer and steeper hike than I thought. Rebecca and I were laboring all the way up. Rebecca kept saying. "How did I get to be part of this family. I hate hiking. Nature hates me." It was actually quite comical. Meanwhile Isaac and Lia ran ahead of us like little jack rabbits scurrying up the hillside yelling, "Hurry, Hurry." And then finally "We are here. Where are you."

 

Becca and I finally made it. And the view from there was amazing.

And then came Easter. We dyed some eggs. Isaac got so artistic it was a shame to eat his eggs later.

                                                             Lia goes to the park hunt

                                                        The haul from Nana's house.

And then Lia gets ready to be in the Cedar City Junior Ballet Company's production of Coppelia. Lia only had a small part in this ballet but she worked really really hard for months and especially the week before the production. By Sunday she was exhausted and so was I frankly. But she loved being part of this bigger production where she got to dress up, go on stage, put on makeup and watch the big ballerinas sway by in their beautiful costumes.

Saturday morning both Isaac and Lia sang at different times at a fundraiser for a local family who lost their mother in a car crash. 


Isaac has joined honors choir -- the blessing and bane of my existence. He has to be there at 6:45. Which means I lose an extra hour of sleep but I don't have to fight him to be on time for school. Isaac actually sang a solo at this event but forgot to tell me so I only got 3 seconds of him singing. Turkey. Lia is also in her school choir.

Updates coming soon

I am so sorry it has been a while. I promise that I will update soon. After tax season is over, the house is cleaned, the yard is cleaned, the car is cleaned, my magazine is updated, Isaac's scout projects are completed and Lia's ballet performances are done.

I WILL BE BACK!